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    Posted: 02-August-2007 at 08:15
There seems to be quite a few ex grovers living abroad. What do you miss most about Ireland and for those of you still at home, what do you think you would miss most.

I might as well start with myself. I´ve been abroad for the past 12 years and what I miss most is the music of Ireland. The fact that you can go out seven nights a week in Dublin and hear good quality live music, be it rock, pop, blues, jazz or folk. I took all that for granted when I was back home.

Oh yeah, and a decent pint of Guinness.
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Can't really imagine living abroad - I spent about six months on the southside with a mate and nearly got homesick. I think I'd just miss the feeling of knowing everything and having grown up in a place and feeling that I have this connection even with total strangers because we're from the same neck of the woods (even though chances are they're not!)

I was asked by HR once whether I would be interested in working abroad and my exact response nearly gave my boss premature heart attack - "I live on the Northside, I work on the Southside, I think that's enough travel for one man"

But I would miss the good pint. Right about that.

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When I lived in South Africa what I missed most was the sea. The nearest beach was 600kms away. I also missed family and friends but we made so many new friends whom we met at barbeques and other social occassions. It's unlike Ireland where nearly all the socialising revolves around the pub.

On the plus side we had a great time. the weather was excellent, golf all year round and a beautiful pool and garden. Servants doing all the tasks we abhor. Travelling to see interesting places.

It's great to be back though and enjoying the Grove reunions.

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hmmm....what would put me off moving abroad....well, first and foremost, my immediate family and friends - it would be very unusual for me not to have spoken to parents and siblings at least once a day! (I kid you not!) - we're very close, so to not be able to see them regularly would be a major culture shock for me! Also, couldn't bring my beloved animals with me (well, unless I wanted to put them in quarantine!) - they're an extension of the family anyway!

I love the size of Ireland, the fact that you're never really too far from anything, be it the sea, countryside, city etc....and on a "food" aspect of things I'd really miss my Superquinn Smoked Rashers, a nice cuppa cha, Cadburys chocolate and King Crisps!!!!!!

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Potatos .............I would miss a good boiled spud. Hate when you go away and with dinner you get chips and salad and if you ask for a potato you are given a roasted one

Bewleys tea...........I need my fix of about 4/5 cups a day

"Gift Grub" on Ian Dempsey show on Today FM......love listening to gift grub every morning, cos it make me laugh and what better way to start your day off.

Blanchardstown Centre.........It's like my second home, when I need time out of the house it's great to wander around the shops and spend some money

Family and friends..........don't need to say anymore here

The grove reunions........love the fact that I can act like a 16yr old again, and for a few hours step out of mammy mode

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Ive lived abroad since I was 19 and have always missed a decent pint of Guiness. No matter where Ive lived Ive never had as good a pint as you get in Ollies pub in Puckane Tipperary. I also used to miss a decent cup of tea, my mam and inlaws would always smuggle over some Barrys for me until I discovered that a shop up the road actually sells them, be it a little bit more expensive but worth the extra cost. Missing family and friends goes without saying of course. Would prefer the Perth summer to a Dublin one though.
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I have lived in Australia for 19 years and the thing I miss most about Ireland is the easy way people chat to eachother just because they are in your "space" for a while, like at the bus stop, a queue in the shops or wherever.

I miss having my family around for special occasions like Christmas or birthdays and I would love to be able to pop in for a coffee and chat now and then but I DONT miss the external interferance that comes with family living close to you when things are not going too well. There were many times I was really glad we were this far away and they didn't have to know so couldn't get involved.

I miss having a relationship with my nieces and nephews who were all born years after I left.

I missed my kids not having aunts and uncles, grannies and grandads and cousins as part of their immediate lives.

I do still miss a good pork sausage.

I used to miss Hellmans mayonaise til they brought it in here.

Dont shoot me for this but I think if I had to leave Australia and go back to live in Ireland there is much more I would miss about Australia than I ever did about Ireland. I realised this when Grainne told me she was moving "home". I had no difficulty getting on a plane and emigrating to Australia back then - none at all apart from the snots and dribbles at the airport as we were leaving family. But I remember putting myself in Grainnes shoes that day she told me and feeling that I would be quite devestated to leave Australia.

I was always a bit of a gypsy and independant anyway. I left home at 18 in Ireland and moved into a flat on the south side initially with a friend from the country- back then NOBODY left home unless it was to find work in a different town or to get married.

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I have lived abroad since 1994.

I did return for 3 years in 2000 but then headed away ( happily ) again as most of you know.

I do miss the odd sausage ( pork variety ) like Carol and I do miss Cadburys chocolate. I miss Superquinn and I miss my walks in Howth.

I live abroad not because of a major wanderlust or because I can´t stand Ireland ( it surprises me that some people consider it is a factor in me being away )....it was never a case of a .."I can´t wait to get outa here ", thing.

I live abroad cos the hubbies work takes him abroad and his dual nationality is a strong factor in his gypsy tendancies. I married into that and was happy to do so. I always knew we would be heading Spain or South America way..

Like Carol, there is probably more positives for me living abroad than there are living in Ireland. That is just the way it is.

Could analyse the whole thing and debate about this and that and do the whole SWOT analysis but what´s the point ??.

For me HOME is where the heart is and the heart is where my hubbie is so I will follow him and support him gladly. All else is secondary.

Of course I miss my family, they won´t be able to visit as frequently as they have been doing BUT I am independent and like Carol the " distance " thing suits me quite well. I very much like doing my own thing and always have so this life suits me.

My family is my husband, my three kids and my dog. End of story. That is who I want to be with, whatever country, where ever life takes us.

I do think about the children and how by going to Mexico means they will see less of their cousins. Luckily for me quite a few now are heading towards and beyond the Leaving Cert age so I predict we will have many visits. Skype and the Webcam help enormously too...not to be underestimated. Frequent communication is possible and that means alot.

I do have a dream of one day having my own wee place in West Cork and I would love, when the kids are at work or Uni or whatever that I could spend half the year there and the balance in my permanent home whereever that might be then.....all in the future...could do with a crystal ball sometimes !!.

A lot of people at home think the grass is greener elsewhere and then when they get there, the grass suddenly becomes greener at home. I was glad of the opportunity to come home in 2000 because I was feeling just like that. NOW...it is out of my system..came home but was happy and excited to leave for foreign parts again...and am still happy.

That is my tuppence worth.

Don´t shoot me either....

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I have been in the US since 1993! I was so homesick for the best part of 10 years but I know our life is better here so I stuck with it. 

If my Mother was still alive I would certainly have moved back and I have no doubt about that at all.  I will never forget the day I left and seeing my Mother through the little window as I walked away!!!!! Yuck I never want to go through that again.

I miss my family so much.  I generally miss "the land" and the culture.  I love meeting Irish people as they have a great ability to laugh and share a joke, what a great place to grow up.  I will never ever let go of Ireland and it's my home forever.  I feel Irish from the inside out.

I will never forget going home a few years back and spending the long Paddy's weekend in Achill Island.  Well on Paddy's day we woke up to the marching band going up the Island.  That night we headed off to the pub actually called "The Pub".  The craic was mighty.  Leaving the pub at about 12 or 1 who do we meet on the road but "The marching band" still going hard at it.

Ah Ireland where the hell would you get it only Ireland - I love it.

I love going home and walking into the local and knowing all the folk sitting at the bar just where I left them all those years ago.  I love the nod and the greeting of “How are ya Teresa, home again for a visit”… I blend in just like I never left.  I get a hug off every one of them young and old when I am leaving and again the sad goodbye of “Don’t worry Teresa sure you’ll be home again soon”…

Ah feck it yis have me crying now...

But Columbus, Ohio is home away from home now and I love the many friends we have made.

Oh yeah! Thank the lord above for Fado's as that is where we pick up our Irish sausies and rashers.  Our Tayto cheese and onion and my sweets if I can get any before Tom the manager eats them all.  They give the lads their bar of Cadbury chocolate every Saturday when we go in for our pint.  No charge on the sweets!!! I love the damn chip sticks also....  We have met such a bunch of Irish lads over there.

The Grove website has really put my homesickness at bay especially meeting so many of us far away from home!

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We lived in Belgium for 4 1/2 years and really liked it but always knew we would be coming home. I loved the accessibility of Europe we could drive anywhere. Which we did a fair bit. I would not have lioked to stay there for good - Brussels was not that sort of place. We missed being by the sea. we came back in 1990 and settled back into Dublin,
Then we moved to Kilkenny in 1998 (July)
No way would I want to go back to Dublin now Sometimes when I am in Dublin I feel old because of all the changes going on old buildings torn down or closed down.
I have found people here are friendly and welcoming. I like going to my local and knowing the faces. I like when I leave work I can be home in 5-6 minutes or downtown in the same amount of time

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I think i would miss the low wages,high tax,house prices ...ect.

        



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Being a total creature of habit, I think I'd just miss my settled surroundings...was a wrench to move out of the folks house in the first place!
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I have been living abroad since I was about 24 and it's been nearly 10 years since I have been back to Dublin.

Off the top of my head what I miss most is the humour, Irish turn of phrase, the cliff walk in Howth, proper brown bread and a decent cup of tea and last but not least my glass of Guinness!

I love living in Perth, however home is really where my family is. I am lucky, of the four kids in the family three of us are here plus my Dad. My kids have their Grandad, Cousins Aunts and Uncles within walking distance of our house

As I don't have the ‘Family home” in Dublin anymore I have no major pull back to Ireland. In my case Hubby is from Colorado so the ties are to there where his family still live.

Discovering this site has been a brilliant link with Dublin it has given me a connection with the the day to day goings on, many a time you guys have had me in a heap laughing with your sharp wit and great humour. If I try and explain it to anyone here they think I have gone gaga - Thanks all
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I lived in Sydney for 14 years and the things I missed most were - my family of course. With 5 sisters it is a lot to miss! I missed pork sausages and apple tart. You can't get cooking apples in Australia and so apple tarts never tasted tarty!!

What I've enjoyed most since coming back to Ireland is the wit of Irish people particularly the Dubs. You can't beat it. I also enjoy the seasons - particularly Spring no point talking about Summer but I remember once when we had one I really enjoyed it!!

And I have to say I find the physical country of Ireland so calming and good for the soul. I loved Australia and still do but Ireland is my home.

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I go to Thailand every December/January and when I'm there there's not a thing about Ireland that I miss, except some family of course.

I'm not sure whether I'd feel the same if I moved there permanently.

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Pat...how come you go to Thailand every year? Thailand is great! You'll have to pop over and visit us when you are there sometime.
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Well never went as far afield as u guys but spent 11 years in London and god missede loads of things about home dont know where to start.

Food ie tayto crisps irish sausages clonakilty pudding red lemonade chef sauce and could go on

friends and family are a given

Missed the sea / coast so much had to drive at least two hrs to get to the coast hated that.

never got to see my boys in blue

But if had to pick one thing over everything else would be the girly chats while queuing in the ladies toliets never know who u end up talking to and wot they would come out with but guarenteed to end up laughing.

Been home now for 12 years and would never go back luv being home

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I miss going to to pub with friends. They don't do that here. It's all bbq's and going to peoples houses.

I love perth and I love the aussie weather and I never felt homesick much.

But I miss the proper brown bread from Dunnes. Tayto, King crisps. Easons. And definitely shops that open late. Shops close too early in Perth. Only late night shopping on thurs. No sunday trading!!!! yet!!!

Miss the craic with friends. But chatting to you guys definitely helps.

Apart from Dublin, Perth is a fantastic place to live.

But I can't wait to get home in sept. Looking forward to Harry's and the Castle and maybe a Tues night in Tamango's.

Jaysus, I'm homesick now!!!!!!!!!!

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Forgot about the brown bread Lesley!! When I come back each time from a trip to Ireland I have a spate of making it- must give you the recipe if you can be bothered :). But the sausages...have found a few close seconds but never quite the same! And yes..the bloody shops here..what is it with Aussies and not opening late or sundays??? AND they dont like day light saving!! I do like the long summer evenings.
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